"Some scientists have proposed that when a woman has a baby, she gets not just a son or a daughter, but a gift of cells that stays behind and protects her for the rest of her life. That's because a baby's cells linger in its mom's body for decades and -- like stem cells -- may help to repair damage when she gets sick. It's such an enticing idea that even the scientists who came up with the idea worry that it may be too beautiful to be true." [NPR]
It's scientific work that could prove what I feel -- my daughter, having once been physically attached to me, housed within me, is no less connected now that she lives and thrives independently, outside my body. She will figuratively (and according to this research perhaps physically) always be a part of me.
Barbara Crafton writes, "Twice I heard it on the radio, and stopped what I was doing to listen,
each time with a peace inside that I have not known before: mothers
carry cells from their babies even after the babies are born. Years
after. Decades after, even, some of the babies' cells live within us
still. They may function in something of the same way that stem cells
function, applying their reproductive powers to replace cells killed by
disease. They may rush to the place where disease has invaded to help
us fight it. It is true of all babies, not just live births. Stillborn babies'
cells live on in their mothers. Miscarried babies, aborted babies. All
of them, no matter how many there were: at a cellular level, they still
are."
If you want to read some of the science, here's an abstract of an article by one of the researchers working in this area. There is a button to click for the full text article, if you are interested.